Thriving Relationships Are Centered Around Quality Connection, Nourishing Intimacy And Responsible Communication.

 

Would You Like To Experience Greater fulfillment And Lasting Love In Your Relationship?

 SHEMS SPECIALIZES IN HELPING COUPLES WITH:

  • Win Win communication
  • Resolving conflict and reducing arguments
  • Increasing connection and closeness
  • Creating a satisfying and intimate sex life
  • Recovering from an affair and building trust again
  • Facing transitions in life and in the relationship
  • Healing relational wounds, current or past

EFFECTIVELY TRANSFORM ANY OF THESE ISSUES :

  • Arguments over small things explode into heated fights
  • Your sex life has lost its spark
  • Your partner has withdrawn or shut down emotionally
  • You feel blamed and criticized and like nothing you do is ever enough
  • Your spouse has angry outbursts and can be demanding
  • You’re nervous and walk on eggshells around your partner

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COACHING AND COUPLES PROGRAMS

GETTING SUPPORT IS MORE EFFECTIVE AND FUN THAN TRYING HARDER!

 

The entanglements of a relationship are difficult to see when you are caught in them and even harder to change. Having a facilitator, in a safe and supportive environment is the most effective way to resolve conflict and open up to deeper love and connection.

“Shems works like a masterful mountain climbing guide. He knows exactly when to push you through any resistance and how to turn relationship challenges into gateways for renewed connection and deeper intimacy.”

 Paul S.

If you want to become skillful at anything you need consistent practice and expert guidance.

In 3 to 6 months you will learn, through experience, specific skills and exercises that will help you to dissolve defense patterns, process past traumas and nourish your love for one another.

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Harmonize & Revitalize Your Relationship

3 Month Program

It takes a season to learn and integrate a new way of operating in relationship. The struggles that most couples face are rooted in unconscious conditioning that requites consistent practice and  commitment to reprogram.

With skillful guidance and coaching, you can build a solid foundation of deep connection and love that is flexible and unbreakable.

THIS PROGRAM INCLUDES…

  • 4 x 75-minute Coaching Sessions per month – 12 total sessions
  • Sessions are on my Zoom virtual video platform or via phone (Recorded for reference)
  • Breakthrough support calls if you get stuck in conflict or disconnection
  • Specifically focussed individual sessions with each partner to focus on their individual challenges and responsibility in the relationship
  • Guided exercises and experiential practices to cultivate a new frontier of connection
  • Deep Listening & Skillful Assertiveness Instruction personalized to address your unique challenges and needs.

Cost is $3,000

Or

3 Monthly Payments of $1,000

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Relationship And Personal Transformation

6 Month Program

Take a powerful and life changing journey that will amplify your love and completely empower your relationship. Over 6 months we will have more opportunity to focus on each of you individually, we can delve deeper into your individual growth edges, healing and life mission.

This is an opportunity to invest in your future personally and relationally by mastering the tools and presence that will create an everblooming and evolving depth of love and connection..

THIS PROGRAM INCLUDES…

  • 4 x 75-minute Coaching Sessions per month – 24 total sessions
  • Personal one on one work for each partner in the relationship, specifically focussed on their individual growth edges, challenges, vitality and individual empowerment.
  • Sessions are on my Zoom virtual video platform or via phone (Recorded for reference)
  • Breakthrough support calls if you get stuck in conflict or disconnection
  • Guided exercises and experiential practices to cultivate a new frontier of connection
  • Deep Listening & Skillful Assertiveness Instruction personalized to address your unique challenges and needs.
  • Possible couples intensive retreat on Maui.

Cost is $4,800

Or

6 Monthly Payments of $800

 Breakthrough Session

2-hr intensive session to help you & your mate to transform whatever is not working & set a plan for creating a partnership that is optimal for both of you.

  • Discover the underlying pattern that is sabotaging your relationship.
  • Receive key insights and intuitive guidance from Shems
  • Create a clear vision and pathway for the quality of relationship you really want together.
  • Confront the hidden (and not-so-hidden!) challenges that have prevented you and your partner from enjoying and loving each other deeply!
  • Come up with the specific solutions to address those challenges and a roadmap to create the beautiful relationship that you so desire

Cost for a breakthrough session is: $300

"It may be when we no longer know what to do, we have come to our real work.
And when we no longer know which way to go, that we have begun our real journey."

- Wendell Berry

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