The Mens Passage is a course for men who want to reconnect with their raw power and passion and are ready to face whatever is obstructing their capacity to function optimally in every area of their life. Through this work, you will learn to access and embody a manhood as strongly empowered as it is vulnerable, as emotionally attuned as it’s alive, as passionately present as it is loving, a manhood that creates thriving relationships while serving the highest good of All.

  • Are you looking for a healthy and effective way to face your inner and outer challenges?
  • Is it time to take a big step toward living a more meaningful and fulfilling life?
  • Would you like to make a commitment to yourself and learn skills that will radically empower and transform you from the inside out?

The more we struggle, the less free we become... Are you creating the life you really want?

Most men have a story that keeps them playing small… And many men have a dream to do something really BIG…

What’s in between this game of the small and big, is a struggle of self worth, energy and focus that has left many of us soft, lazy, scattered, and drastically under-utilizing our full potential.

It’s far too easy to get stuck in your own limiting stories…

“I don’t have enough time…”

“I’m not attractive enough…”

“I’m not smart enough…”

“I’m not confident enough…”

“I don’t have enough money…”


The Passage is For Men Who are Ready To…

  • Actively cultivate thier vitality and relational skills.
  • Serious about personal growth and transformation.
  • Befriend their shadow, fierceness and their light.
  • Overcome their addictions and self-sabotage patterns.
  • Develop deeper intimacy and stroger relationships
  • Participate in a community of high-achieving men


The Passage is Not For Men Who Are…

  • Unwilling to put in the work and energy necessary to create results.
  • Not open to learning via receiving guidance and feedback.
  • More invested in their excuses than committed to their path.
  • Really not ready to be accountable and trustworthy.
  • Want to continue distracting themselves with alcohol, drugs, porn, or social media, instead of taking the reigns of their life.

Many men believe they can do everything all on their own and then continue to have the same struggles repeating over and over again. If you want to thrive in your life, then now is the time to make a life-changing investment into your most precious resource: YOU!!!



Learn powerful vitality enhancing practices to clear out stress and create more Flow in your life. Break the cycle of overthinking and tap into your Core Authentic Strength. True empowerment is rooted in your ability to sustain high levels of energy and connection in all situations.



The Passage is a process which brings your hidden powers out of the shadow and into the light. This work guides you to reclaim your integrity and wholeness by unmasking the behaviors which erode intimate relationships, drain your passion, and keep you from fulfilling your dreams.



Learn how to be the kind of man that women long for. Cultivate the essential skills that dissolve conflict, feed sexual fire and create more depth and connection with your woman.

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What You Will Gain From Taking This Journey:

  • More energy and greater confidence 
  • An increased sense of purpose and mission
  • Core centered emotion skills 
  • Deeper connection with the men and women in your life
  • Bring your hidden powers out of the shadow
  • Skills To build your sexual vitality 
  • How to befriend fear
  • Shem’s Empowered Loving Relational skills
  • Healthy Leadership Development
  • Appreciation for true allyship and brotherhood

What Does Going Through The Passage Look Like? 

Every man’s journey is going to be different. We each have unique challenges, patterns to heal, and desires to fulfill. That said, there are tried and true structures and guidance that support us to go deeper and reach beyond our own limitations. This is what The Passage is all about.

Here is an overview of some of the elements of This Process:

Step Into A New Frontier of Healthy Masculinity…

One That Brings Your head, heart, and core into full-blooded alignment!

Become The Confident, High-Value Man You Know You Are Meant To Be.

Here’s how it breaks down:

The program will include 12 weeks of Live, Online, in-depth Video Sessions, packed into 6 separate modules – plus bonus videos, teaching materials, and practices to get you thriving on your path.

In those sessions, I’ll teach you everything I know about revitalizing your life, transforming your shadows aand creating a passionate and fulfilling relationship with your woman.

You will not find this quality of experience and effective guidance anywhere else.

This is not like listening podcasts, reading the next best seller, or watching YouTube videos on Men’s work.

This deep and experiential training journey that will carve a new path in the wilderness of your being.

This is like having me work with you, one-on-one, and downloading the most effective empowerment and transformational tools available, so you can plug into your power and generate more light, love and power in your life!

You get 12 weeks of training – including over a dozen guided video practices that include breathwork, Qi Gong, Reltionship optimization and profound meditations.  . And once you complete these courses, I promise you’ll walk away with unbelievable power that you didn’t know you had buried within you.

Here are just a few of the changes you’ll notice right away:

● You’ll become confident, strong, and motivated – be fueled by a fresh perspective, and a new purpose in life, which you’ve designed for yourself. Instead of getting pushed around by friends, family, and society, you’ll stand out as a strong, grounded, purpose-driven man.

● You’ll use one simple technique to zero in on lingering challenges in your life and eliminate those issues for good. Instead of feeling trapped by your past, you’ll set yourself free from it, and take control of your future – start from Day 1.

● You’ll learn how to take control of your interactions with people, and charge the way the world sees you. Most of the biggest hangups you’re facing right now – from the women, you want to date, to the boss who holds you back – boil down to problems interacting other people. Instead of dreading those interactions, you’ll actually look forward to them, because you’ll know how to turn them in your favor.

This course gives you everything you need to make the same incredible transformation I did, and unlock the new life you’ve been dreaming of.

Here’s what you get.

The Secrets of the Top 1% of Men program includes:

6 Weeks of Video Coaching + Heavy Accountability from our Community

* 6 weeks of coaching modules with me, Andrew

* Unlimited access to the Private Community of high performing men


6 Core Modules

I’ve Developed 6 Core Teaching Modules, Taught Over 12 Weeks, To Help You

Embody Your Full Potential & Power.

Here’s a glimpse at what you’ll be learning along this journey with me.


Module 1: Becoming the Hero of Your Life

✓ Learn how to step up and take full responsibility for your future, right now. This is the first step to becoming the master of your fate. Instead of being a guy who things “just happen to,” you’ll own up to your shortcomings that need to change, and start attacking them head-on.

✓ Forge mental toughness, so you can succeed at an elite level. You’ll learn how to overcome challenges, stand up to pressure and adversity, and achieve higher levels of success than you ever thought possible.

✓ Double your confidence and discover the power to “do, act, and succeed” in any situation, personally and professionally. You’ll learn how to leave behind your self-doubt, and start playing in the big leagues.


Module 2: The Art of Success

✓ Uncover the formula for success. Find out how to get from where you are now to where you want to be so that you can tackle daily challenges with ease. Learn to live with real purpose, and make your highest ambitions into realities.

✓ Rediscover the two greatest human strengths – willpower and self-discipline. Zero in on the things that are most important to you, so you can resist temptations, and redirect your life into an upward spiral of success.

✓ Cultivate the winner’s mindset. Start thinking, acting, and achieving like the top 1% of men – that rare group of guys who’ve truly excelled in life. Instead of just scraping by, you’ll start experiencing the abundance of success that’s out there waiting for you!


Module 3: 10x Your Productivity

✓ Become a man who takes action. Make up for all the years you’ve already wasted, by breaking through your state of resistance and transforming into a warrior who goes out and gets what he wants.

✓ Reactivate your engagement with the world around you. Instead of living in procrastination, laziness, and passivity, you’ll learn how to take the lead role in your life, so you can finally start living your daydreams for real!

✓ Discover the secret of consistency. Learn how to build a reputation as a man who does exactly what he says, when he says. This reputation will earn you the respect you’ve always known you deserve.


Module 4: Master Your Relationships

✓ Build fearless social confidence. Become a man who says what he means and means what he says, unlocking the freedom to express yourself in any social situation.

✓ Learn how to cultivate a thriving social circle. Instead of living in loneliness, surround yourself with high-achieving peers who’ll be there to support you when you need it most – and to join you for all the fun you’ll be having in your brand-new life.

✓ Triple your dating success (if you’re single). Learn how to effortlessly attract your ideal woman, and enjoy a thriving dating life. After all, what fun is professional success if you never take time off to enjoy its fruits?

✓ Create deeper intimate relationships (if you’re not single). Experience the love and connection you deserve. More than a dozen of my clients have prevented a tragic break-up or divorce by following the tips in this module.


Module 5: The Income & Wealth Accelerator

✓ Upgrade your finances to the next level. Learn the 3 Financial Roadmaps, and identify which roadmap you’re on, so you can achieve financial freedom without suffering a lifetime of mediocrity.

✓ Learn to think like a millionaire. Get inside the heads of the ultra-wealthy, and learn exactly how they think about their finances. Instead of chasing vague dreams of being rich, you’ll discover how to make your money go to work for you.

✓ Become a top performer in your industry. Learn how to take advantage of your strengths, so you’ll never have to worry about losing your job or going out of business.

✓ Design your dream job – then make it a reality. You’ll learn how to escape the rat race and join the new rich, by following a step-by-step framework for building your own 6-figure business in 3 years or less.


Module 6: Unleash Your Peak Performance

✓ Look great in the mirror. Learn the ultimate training program to build more lean muscle and lose more fat as quickly as possible without steroids. You won’t even need good genetics, or endless hours on the weight machines – just a simple routine you can do at home, for free.

✓ Get restful deep sleep. Learn how to master your sleep cycle with these eight weird but ridiculously simple steps, so you can wake up feeling fully rejuvenated and ready to tackle the day at a level 10.

✓ Give your body the fuel to upgrade itself. Learn how to plan – and stick to – a healthy diet that provides your body the resources it needs to build muscle and burn fat. Stop “falling off the wagon,” and start treating yourself to nutritious foods that you enjoy.

✓ Stamp out stress and anxiety. Learn how to manage your moods to declutter your mind so that you can stop the endless racing thoughts. I’ll show you how to relieve anxiety, eliminate negative thinking, and completely eradicate depression.


Module 1: Becoming the Hero of Your Life

✓ Learn how to step up and take full responsibility for your future, right now. This is the first step to becoming the master of your fate. Instead of being a guy who things “just happen to,” you’ll own up to your shortcomings that need to change, and start attacking them head-on.

✓ Forge mental toughness, so you can succeed at an elite level. You’ll learn how to overcome challenges, stand up to pressure and adversity, and achieve higher levels of success than you ever thought possible.

✓ Double your confidence and discover the power to “do, act, and succeed” in any situation, personally and professionally. You’ll learn how to leave behind your self-doubt, and start playing in the big leagues.

In order to achieve lasting success, it’s crucial that you have a strong “brotherhood” or community of like-minded men to support you. This keeps you motivated, on track, and most importantly…holds you accountable.

I’ll be honest, this path is not for every man. I only want men who are willing to commit to empowering their lives and ending the stories and bullshit that get in the way of living from their heart and gut.  You will be challenged and the group will help you stay accountable to the goals you set.

Your Guide

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Shems Heartwell is a widely sought after couples coach and mens empowerment guide. His work goes to the core of what is needed for embodied transformation by integrating the physical, mental, sexual, emotional, and spiritual.

He has been in practice for 18 years and has mentored with some of the most influential teachers in the fields of conscious relationship, coaching, healing and transformation. He blends his experience and knowledge into highly effective work that is the leading edge of the human potential movement. 



There Is One Thing That Truly Has The Power To Transform Your Life.

That one thing is how big of a commitment you are willing to make. You see, commitment brings direction and when we direct our intention and energy toward something, the universe steps in to support it. The men who are struggling in their lives are usually holding back or avoiding something. Ther hesitation or resistance is blocking the force of life from fully moving through and illuminating their way.

If you want to embody your full potential, then you need to commit to something bigger than your self. To thrive, you must feel fully alive and plugged into a force greater than your own. A force that comes through you like a storm, pushing you beyond your limitations and into your greatness.

I want for you to be plugged in and switched on so you can give your greatest gifts. Your partner wants the full potency of your presence and fire! Your work demands your highest functioning self! This world needs you to be living your mission, whatever it may be!


So What is stopping you from taking a big step forward on your path? Are you ready to join me us on an experiential journey of healing, transformatiomn, and authentic empowerment?

If you don’t act today… when is it going to happen?

Let’s face your resistance:

If you put off important things that you know you need to do, and if you don’t act right now, it’s never going to happen.

Your life is going to recycle the same issues until you take a risk and do something that generates change.

The feelings of doubt, dissatisfaction, and frustration that you may feel will continue to haunt you until you get powerfully committed to a bigger life.

Trust me, I know resistance, I know overwhelm and unfulfillment. I know how it feels when I  doubt myself and sabotage my life.  I also know how to move through those limiting cycles and how to generate a deep connection with my passion and my woman. I have learned what it takes to shift my energy and my mind into a whole nother playing field that is truly life transforming, and you have the same potential and capacity as I do.

If you think investing in a program like this is “expensive” or you think you don’t have the “time”, then look at some of the big challenges men face today, low energy, unsatisfying sex lives, alcohol or drug addiction, rapid aging, unfulfilling work, Porn addiction and a lack of true intimacy with a woman.

Think of this as preventive medicine.

The Passage is a launch pad into creating a more sustainable and fulfilling life based on high-quality connection, building vitality and harvesting the force of your shadow.

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Commitment and Initiation

We begin working together by making a commitment to staying on the path. A man’s commitment to his personal growth is an essential piece in beginning this sacred journey. You must take this work seriously; you are investing in yourself and committing to challenging yourself. You will break through the “ordinary habits and patterns that have kept your sexual life, relationships, finances, your career and life purpose”, limited.


This process is all about gaining clear insight and laser focus on what your goals for personal, professional, or relational growth are. Your intention is the fuel that jettisons you forward, it is your target, and it is your inspiration to stay disciplined in the practices that will change your life.


You are going to make a courageous and honest assessment of where you are now in your life. You will become clear on the masculine programming you’ve picked up through your family lineage, culture and upbringing. You will be encouraged to explore and commit to what it will take generate a create seismic change in your life.

Facing your internal challenges

This is about getting to the root cause of your external challenges and issues. Taking an honest evaluation of where you are right now. We will look at what feeds and what sabotages all of the different areas of your life; like relationships, sex, career, purpose, family life, spirituality, community, and health.


You will begin regular practices to strengthen your masculine force and connection to your core. This will increase your capacity to show up with a grounded heart that is wide open. You will learn how to embody powerful masculine archetypes that create more confidence and potency.


There is a need for us to reawaken our connection to everything and everyone. None of us lives truly on our own. We are dependent on our environment and everything that goes into our food, shelter, and possessions. The more skillfully you relate with others the richer you will be and the more profound your impact will be on the planet.


The practice of embodiment includes tuning into and creating an experiential relationship with a full range of qualities and emotions. Your character qualities can range from the gentle and quiet, to dark and highly expressive. Most men have not accessed a full range of character qualities.  How can you penetrate your woman with your loving, if you’ve never accessed the powerful directive energy of a confident man? In my men’s groups, I have seen so many lives completely shift through learning to embody a greater range of archetypal qualities. A few of these are: sexy, confident, present, gentle, loving, ballsy, heroic, protective and provider.


Unevolved Men use sex as a way to release their tension and frustrations, rather than deepening connection and feeding a sacred fire.  This often leaves women feeling unfulfilled in intimacy and longing for depth. The patriarchy has taught us to waste our sexual energy.  What if you could harness your sexual energy and use it for good? For a basis of your success and for connecting more deeply in all your relationships? What if you could learn to increase your capacity to love through mastering your sexual force?

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