A 3-Month Powerhouse Program For Men

April 1st – June 17th 2018



Apply & Schedule a Free Coaching Session

Find out if The Men’s Passage is for you! 

Application Deadline is March 28th

Step Forward into a New Frontier of Empowered Manhood!

  • Are you feeling tired and lacking vitality, worn down by the daily grind?
  • Are you holding back or not taking action on what you know you need to do?
  • Is your relationship frustrating and draining you rather than feeding your    passion and drive?
  • Are self-doubt and anxiety blocking your confidence and success?

“I have done a lot of work with many teachers and working with Shems is truly exceptional.” 

– David Bruce Leanard, LAc

“I HIGHLY recommend this to any man ready to take his life to the next level of embodiment, potency, integrity, love, and true success. Shems IS the real deal!”

– Tobin Zivon


In this 3-Month Journey You Will:

  •  Awaken and embody your unique masculinity
  •  Transform anger into increased energy & sexual vitality
  •  Learn how to create a passionate & thriving relationship
  •  Break free of recycling patterns of negativity
  •  Cultivate inner strength and vitality



Every man faces challenges in his life, the more empowered and skillful you become at navigating them, the more enjoyable, meaningful, and impactful your life becomes.


For more than a decade I have coached men in life and relationship and know the pitfalls that we face in our busy lives. The Men’s Passage is built on thousands of hours of personal development through a wide spectrum of disciplines and traditions spiritual, shamanic, relational, men’s work, martial arts, and yoga – coupled with the work I have done guiding countless men through their own personal Men’s Passage.


Men who work with me learn how to face difficult situations with confidence, feel more sexually empowered, and embody an authentic strength that permeates into every aspect of their lives.





The Men”s Passage is an experiential journey that will carve a new path in the wilderness of your being. 
This is an interactive, live, and personal experience. It is comprised of the most successful tools from one-on-one coaching, and it pulls from my seasoned experience as a facilitator of men’s groups.
My commitment is to support you to embody the most effective empowerment and transformational wisdom available so that you can plug into your core power and generate more of what you deeply desire in your life and relationship. 


That Will Empower You From the Inside Out

Application Deadline is March 28th










In this module, you will go deep into yourself and fortify your foundation on all levels; physical, mental, emotional and spiritual.  Without a strong and centered Foundation, we look for outside validation and easily lose our center. This is an opportunity to root deeper into yourself while stretching beyond your comfort zone to rewire any habits or behaviors that keep your sexual life, relationship, creativity, or career from truly thriving.

  • You will establish a strong connection to your core power in 3 specific ways
  • You will discover and grow an authentic confidence that comes from deep within you
  • You will harness the transformational force of responsibility


This module is all about gaining clear insight and developing laser focused goals for your personal, professional, and relational growth. Your intention is the fuel that propels you forward — it’s your inner fire and your inspiration to stay disciplined in the practices that will change your life. Your thoughts and beliefs have a major impact on what you experience.

  • Uncover and dissolve what’s in the way of owning your gifts
  • Release old paradigms of lack and create from responsible wholeness
  • Experience yourself in a radically new expensive way


The healthy masculine is emotionally mature, penetrating, compassionate, and purpose-driven. This module is about strengthening your masculine force and connection to your core. This will increase your capacity to show up with a grounded heart that’s wide open. You will learn how to embody powerful masculine archetypes that create more confidence and meaningful connection in all your relations.

  • Engage more fully with the world around you
  • Harness the power of anger, knowing it as a catalyzing force
  • Embody the Modern Warrior


An intimate relationship with a beloved is the ultimate test of how spiritually mature or developed you are. In this module, I intend to share with you the most valuable tools I know of  —  the ones that magnify love and burn through relational drama or repetitive patterns.

  • Learn how you can create a thriving relationship that lasts
  • Become highly skilled at dissolving conflict and keeping your sexual fire hot
  • Create love from wholness and not lack


This module is about increasing the bandwidth of your being on many levels. To break out of familiar habits and addictions you need to be doing something a lot more stimulating and enjoyable. We are going to turn on your nervous system in fun and exhilarating ways that stimulate hormones and enliven cells in ways that will have you firing on all cylinders.

  • Learn to utilize the full resources of your body/mind/spirit!
  • Relax at a deeper level and feel your strength
  • Optimize your breath and movement to free up your force


FLOW is one of the hottest subjects around right now and for many good reasons. Without access to what is called FLOW, the hustle of life will deplete and wear you out. FLOW is an optimal state of functioning efficiently, and you don’t need to be a super athlete to access it. You can access your higher faculties and find FLOW in your work, your relationship, and through vitality enhancing practices. I’m going to teach you effective access points to a highly functional state that you can bring to all you do.

  • Discover the superpowers of your senses
  • Rewild yourself in pleasurable and powerful ways
  • Utilize creativity and play to free your mind


More than any superfood supplement, working with your sexual energy will enhance your life. As men, we are evolving our sexual capacity to include the full spectrum of sexuality in a conscious and responsible way.

  • Learn how to harness your sexual energy for more pleasure, vitality, and sexual sustainability
  • Increase your capacity to love by mastering your sexual force
  • Become more magnetic and desirable to women
  • Awaken your genitals at a whole new level to sustain maximum pleasure


This module is about developing what it takes to continually apply what you learn in this program so you can live with embodied purpose and make your highest ambitions a reality. You have the reigns to utilize and direct the wild horses within you.

  • Learn to integrate the tools into your daily life
  • Become a leader on matters you care deeply about
  • Know what it means to be an ally and true friend
  • Build a fire that is stronger than any limiting patterns that may re-emerge in your life.

Plus 5 Bonus Sessions With These Amazing Men!

Mind, Body & Spiritual Evolution With ~


Is On A Mission to… empower, inspire and ignite a mutli-generational movement of radical growth through conscious, creative content, acts of love and living boldly. Preston is a Personal Freedom Coach, who supports people in understanding & embracing their fears, so they can live the life of their dreams.

Preston founded MANCAVE and is woring with men from all over the world through this empowering platform! He will be delivering his potent presence and wisdom in a very inspiring way!

Mindfullnes & Cultivating A Sacred Inner Fire ~


is a meditation instructor, dharma teacher, somatic educator, group facilitator, and Hakomi therapist and trainer working in California. He finds that going straight to the heart of matters through the body is the most direct and compassionate route to healing.

Timothy holds a B.S. in physical therapy and an M.A. in clinical and somatic psychology, and in his years as a physical therapist, bodyworker, and somatic psychologist, he’s experienced first-hand the connections between body, mind, and emotions. Timothy is the founder of the Fire Tenders Men’s Movement and the president of Inspiratia, a 501(c)(3) organization promoting the health of individuals, communities, and the environment.

Catalyzing Your Relationship With ~


Is best known as a powerful catalyst for deep transformation and embodied awakening. He is the authored The Art Of Mindful Living and has been teaching groups, couples, and individuals for 18 years.  Tobin has been wholeheartedly dedicated to spiritual awakening and to serving others in the flowering of their highest potential. His extensive training includes 6 years in a Zen Center, 12 years in the Ridhwan School, a three-year apprenticeship with one of the foremost transpersonal psychotherapists in America, five years with Adyashanti, and a teacher-training program with Tantra teacher Shakti Malan. 

Visionary Leadership & Sustainability ~


is a visionary leader with an ability to take large and small teams into realms they never thought were possible. He created Alternavida 5 years ago to help transform people’s lives through nature-inspired wellness retreats, corporate retreats, teambuilding workshops, and leadership coaching. He is certified as a Big Leap coach through the Hendricks Institute and a Wellness coach through the HeartMath Institute. After working in the corporate world for 12 years and completing more than 40 green building projects (LEED) for world-class clients like the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation, Microsoft, GSA, and, he decided to shift his emphasis by bridging the gap between corporate sustainability and people sustainability.




 has been honing and sharing his craft for over 18 years and has mentored with some of the most influential teachers in the fields of conscious relationship, coaching, healing, and transformation. He blends his experience and knowledge into highly effective work that is the leading edge of the human potential movement. Shems is also a passionate surfer and performing musician living with his beloved Achintya on the beautiful island of Maui.  


 Assisting Shems Throughout The Course Is:

Leiven Hwang

is a fusion of architect, product designer, entrepreneur, dancer, and teacher. He leads men’s circles in Taipei, Taiwan and is passionate about living a fully embodied life ecstatically open to all of his emotions, sensations, and experiences and to guiding others to do the same.

Leiven is a certified yoga instructor, has practiced meditation for over 15 years learning and incorporating techniques from many different traditions, and has a background in martial arts, qigong, authentic movement, and pilates.

“The righteousness that Shems embodies is a compass for my own path of living true to my values. His loving presence, ability to listen, see, reflect and share has been a source of inspiration for me in my own journey of self-discovery and living to my potential.

– Evan Ryan 

Shems is a powerful guide. During our work together, I accessed deeply hidden parts of myself and experienced profound insight, healing, and transformation”

– Gregory Braveheart Hyman


  • Twelve 90-min live video sessions
  • 6 live bonus sessions with highly skilled men sharing their gifts
  • Additional weekly video practices, guided audio meditations, and specific exercises
  • One 75-min one-on-one Skype coaching session, during the passage, with Shems (valued at $200)
  • 6 Thurday Q&A sessions throughout the program
  • Admission to a private Facebook group, to keep the connection and group energy alive after the Passage is complete


“Shems is one of the most engaging and brilliant men’s empowerment facilitators I have ever worked with”

Adam A. ~ Paticipant in the first Men’s Passage Program

The Men’s Passage Begins on April 1st, 2018


“investing in yourself is the best investment you will ever make. it will not only improve your life, it will improve the lives of all those around you.”

– Robin Sharma  (Celebrated Leadership Expert + Advisor to Business Titans + Humanitarian)

Knowing what you want is the first step in harnessing your authentic power. Take a moment to pause and ask yourself these questions:
Will The Men’s Passage have a positive and empowering impact on my life?
Do I want the experience and benefits that this program can help me achieve?
If you answered YES to these questions, then:
What stops you from powerfully choosing and taking action toward what you most want in your life and relationship?
If your life was powerfully impacted by this program and you knew that you would experience a significant improvement in your vitality and relationship, would you hesitate to commit?

If You Are Ready To Take The Next Step

Apply and schedule an intro session with Shems today!

Application Deadline is March 28th

“Working with Shems has strengthened my intimate relationship as well as my personal direction and fulfillment. His perceptive and engaging style cut straight to the heart of the areas that I needed to look at and work on.“

– Tighe Melville, Owner, LionFish SupperClub



Q: When are the live coaching calls scheduled?

A:A: Sundays at 5pm Pacific: April 1st, 8th, 15th, 22ndth, 29th, May 6th, 13th, 20th, 27th, June 3rd, 10th, & 17th. Thursdays at 6pm Pacific: April 5th, 12th, 19th, 26th, May 3rd, 10th, 17th, 24th, 31st, June 7th, & 14th.

Q: I have a busy schedule… what if I am not able to keep up with the daily activities?

A: You will receive recordings of each of the group sessions as well as written and video practices to explore at your own time and pace and have access to the Facebook Group.

Q: How long do I have access to the course content?

A: For 1 full year.

Q:What if I need to miss one of the live coaching calls?

A: Recordings will be available to watch on the member site within 12 hours of the session.



~ 12 – 1.5 hour live teaching session and 12 Bonus sessions with guest teachers and Q&A that can be reviewed and used for future reference

~ 12 weeks of guided exercises and daily practices to enrich your relationship

~ A supportive online community of men, who are on a similar path as you, and with whom you can connect with, support and witness each others’ transformation

~ Guided experiences that generate vitality, creativity, play and relationship breakthroughs, while diving deep into personal development

~ An inspiring new way of learning that offers motivation, consistancy, support, connection, and accountability

~ Clear processes and structure for empowering learning, growth and development

~ The option to have private sessions with Shems to deepen your work through challenging issues.

***Plus weekly Thursday Bonus Sessions with amazing guest teachers, time for questions and group check in’s about how things are going for you.


Apply and schedule an intro session with Shems today!

Application Deadline is March 28th

Here Is What Men Say About Shems


Apply and schedule an intro session with Shems today!

Application Deadline is March 28th

The Passage is for men who are ready to…

  • Actively cultivate their vitality and relational skills
  • Commit to personal growth and transformation
  • Befriend their shadow, fierceness, and light
  • Overcome their addictions and self-sabotaging habits and patterns
  • Develop deeper intimacy and stronger relationships

The Passage is also for men who…

  • Struggle with receiving guidance and feedback
  • Don’t yet know how to be accountable and trustworthy but would like to be
  • Experience resistance and avoidance patterns
  • Have been distracting themselves with alcohol, drugs, porn, or social media, instead of taking the reigns in their life